What If It’s Not Answerable?

What If It’s Not Answerable?

What if there isn’t an answer? What happens when you haven’t got an answer or, worse, say the wrong thing? It’s awkward. That feeling of damned if you do, damned if you don’t. Or the dry mouth that comes with an empty head of replies....
What If It’s Not True?

What If It’s Not True?

Do you know if it’s true? Yesterday I saw a post from The Guardian stating that ‘the Majority of Brexit voters ‘would accept free movement’ to access a single market.’ Hallelujah, I thought as I considered its impact on people and...
What If It’s Not Good For You?

What If It’s Not Good For You?

What is good for you? You. As I write many people are experiencing a challenging Thanksgiving dinner. Empathising with their emotional discomfort, I ponder my disdain for the entire festive period. It started months ago when I saw the first Christmas item in the...
What If It’s Not Independence?

What If It’s Not Independence?

What if it’s hyper-independence? Have you seen this Reel? 👇🏻 The caption says ‘Therapist: You know hyper-independence is actually a trauma response, right?’ The reply is ‘Me:’ and shows a woman singlehandedly carrying a washing machine up...